I have to share this.....

A wise friend once said happiness is more often obtained when our expectations are in line with and changes with reality. I think we often operate under false hopes or we're thinking about how things were in the past. When we see life for how it really is around us and we adjust our behavior, decisions and wishes accordingly, there's a greater chance we will be pleased with how our lives are progressing. from Jai Pausch Her new book is Dream New Dreams: Reimagining My Life After Loss, This helps me realize that while reality changes and that I need to adjust my expectations to new realities - that I also don't have to let go of the dreams I am working on because of those changes.